vonster's 突发奇想

以前， 我爱人
现在， 我被爱。
都说被爱是幸福的，
有时却怕辜负了。

VONSTER'S reminder

someone forward this to me................................

This is something we should all read at least once a week. (I don't know when it was written).

Written by Regina Brett, 90 years old, of The Plain Dealer, Cleveland, Ohio


"To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 45 lessons life taught me. It is the most-requested column I've ever written. My odometer rolled over to 90 in August, so here is the column once more:

1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.
2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.
3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.
4. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and parents will. Stay in touch.
5. Pay off your credit cards every month.(cilaka!!)
6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.
8. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it.(ahahhahahahahah wtf!!!!)
9. Save for retirement starting with your first pay check.
10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.
11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.
12. It's OK to let your children see you cry.
13. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it.(very very true!)
15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks.
16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.
17. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
18. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.(lucinda's quote o_O)
19. It is never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.
20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer.
21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special.
22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.
23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.
24. The most important sex organ is the brain.
25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.
26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words 'In five years, will this matter?'
27. Always choose life.
28. Forgive everyone everything.(my line!!!)
29. What other people think of you is none of your business.(i should remember this from this instance)
30. Time heals almost everything. Give time.
31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
32. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
33. Believe in miracles.
34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do.
35. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.
36. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young.
37. Your children get only one childhood.
38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.
39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.
40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back.
41. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
42. The best is yet to come.
43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
44. Yield.
45. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift.

Vonster's lack of time.

hey guys. its been a while since i last blog.
yes. there are spiderweb all over, i know i know.
everyday after 8-5, i rather spend my time resting or doing other stuff instead of 'thinking and analyzing'. now i feel that i'm in a mess. no proper diet, no proper aims.... hmmm
once in a while, i should get back to blog, to flashback what i actually did.


i spent most of my time with Andy, but.. whenever i was with him, time pass in a blink.
people told me, when you are happy, time pass sooner. i guess i am. :):)
i try not to stick to him all the time, as i think i should have my own private time for myself and friends so that things get balance up. but still, time after 8-5, is so NOT ENOUGH!!!!! CAN I COMPLAIN? just for the last time? WHY IS TIME NOT ENOUGH FOR ME?

to be part of laneige's event was a good experience.
not really an awesome event(due to some 'playing dirty' shits)
but still, I HAD LOTS OF FUN!
i learned new things and met a few cool ppl. hehe!

feel like lecturing today... but its already 1am. shit........my eyes are half close..
i will blog again soon.. TO LECTURE. oh yea, its something related to the 'performing' thingy.
stay tune????


good nite.







p/s: a relationship that involves 'suiciding' act will nvr gonna last. so... let it go, friend.

Vonster's sunday night.

I NEED TO GET TONE UP BEFORE THE 25TH OF JUNE 2009!
still another 18 days to go.. LOSE 3kgs AND ABOVE I SHALL~~
JIAYOU JIAYOU JIAYOU!

everything have been a rush lately.
I dont think me and Andy have the time to cool down and relax.
hopefully there will be holiday soon!! hopefully!
went to Yan's place for facial yesterday and fell asleep unexpectedly when she was 'surgering' my pimples and blackheads... and i SNORED!!!!


eversince i start switching company, i can sleep anywhere and anytime i could.
not only so, i fall asleep in no time!!!!! and why??
because my current job is so challenging that involves in soooooooooo much thinking...
thus, my brain is tired instead of my body.

so, my point is...
for those who have problems in sleeping, lying on bed for hrs....
i personally suggest that u should 'think' more!
u know? play some games like Sudoku?
or games that require strategies...
think about how to build something......
think in a healthy and challenging way
that do not consist with Money and Relationship.
think of something that u r passionate with.....


these are smething that i think is lame......
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wahahahhahahahaa~~~~~~

p/s: body like gisele bunchen.....yesh yesh yesh~ i can do it~

OMG! my head is stuck!
back to work, back to basic, back to SPACE PLANNING!!!!
i'm now thinking of the best way for the flows, digging what i had learned during college.
i need to be serious, i need to clear my mind, i need to learn from mistakes!
i need to be in ORDER! THAT MUST BE DONE BY TODAY!!!!!
GO GO GO GO GO GO!!! EVERYONE should be impressed! wahahahahaha!





JIAYOU JIAYOU JIAYOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Vonster (^^,)

i did not disappear okay!!! just dunno why all my friends 'automatically' stop finding me after i officially announced that i'm attached. Some guy friends even ignored me. WTF!!!!
HELLO!! i still need FRIENDS okay, feel free to give me a call ya~ :):)

Andy gives me warm feelings, everyday....kind of feel bad for i dunno wat to do in return.
i really need to get back my independence!
Right.. due to the fatness caused by all the good foods in his house,
i suggested that we should go HIKING.... so here we go, Tasek Lama on a beautiful healthy SUNDAY afternoon!!! its good to have someone that u love to be by ur side.....feel so different cause i used to hike alone. :):) everyday is so happy for me.



so in love with this song....
i listen to it over n over again!







p/s: be happy----> Gooooooooooooooo LUCKY!!

Vonster's full of LOVE

HEY PPL!!!!
sorry that i cant talk about anything else besides my BF because i'm still....DEEPLY IN LOVE!!!
OMG OMG OMG!!! :):)
love is all around and love is all around!
Just feel like sticking on his body all the time
everyone may have wonder, why is it so in a sudden..
i shall say, the feelings just came in no time and u have no time to wonder WHY?
its nothing like the past relationship, or maybe yes... but i nvr feel the same way before.
being pampered... having someone that i have in mind for long.....
that is, law of attraction (here i go again -_-)
i always have this in mind for the past years, i WANT someone who is:

1) positive in life
2) compromising
3) brave
4) very motivated
5) caring and understanding
6) sociable in certain ppl...
7) loves 'teh-ing' with me all the time
8) humbleeeeeee
9) everyone like to be friend with him
10) low profile
so on and so on..........


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and there he is... out of no where and he came to me...
everything that i'm longer for
seems like a miracle! :):)